General Characteristics
The symbol for Cancer is the crab, ruled by planet Moon, and the element of water. The whole three things combined equals emotions, sensitivity, and intuition. The crabs are the mother nature of the Zodiacs. “I love people. I love my family, my children . . . but inside myself is a place where I live all alone and that’s where you renew your springs that never dry up,” says Pearl S. Buck, one of the famous Cancerians.
Cancer are caring people, they care about those around them, but as caring and soft as they are, don’t under estimate their strength because they do have quite strong survival skills in the real world. The Cancer loves their family and friends, they tend to have this irresistible loving-nature in them, vulnerable at times, the crabs are also energetic and wise. Many Cancer finds it easy to mimic other people’s behaviors or characters, which is why it’s not a surprise that they can be great actors.
The crabs do have problems when it comes to giving, they love to give maybe a little too much at times that they don’t demand much in return, thus they can easily be taken advantage of. Their downside includes the fact that they can get moody, sulky, and feels sorry for themselves sometimes. They hate being told what to do or being given an advice, or being ordered around, so make sure that you don’t make your Cancer feel like they are in that position.
Seducing a Cancer
Cancer are traditional and conservative, therefore, use the monkey see, monkey do attitude. Be sensitive, caring, non violent, you are now all about love. Seducing a Cancer can never be too hard because they are the description of what it supposed to be like when a man is with a woman, like say back in the old days, walking hand-in-hand under the moon light. You just have to be imaginative and romantic with the Cancer. Show support to your Cancer, they can get insecure at times and doubt their own abilities; therefore it will be a plus point for you if you encourage them, telling them that they are qualified.
You would only drive your Cancer away if you criticize him or her too much and even ignoring them. Remember that your Cancer is sensitive by nature, so be gentle, and use your heart more than your head when it comes to winning the heart of the Moon.